looselips-ing

who doesnt love it? if you dont, well, kiss me arse! -lol

“The only time people dislike gossip is when you gossip about them.” true true true!

cmon, lets be frank, you do love gossip dont you? well i do! i love it sooooooo much! you know what, when i was on the "looselips era", i could actually go around and just ask "do you have any gossip?" or probably "do you know the super eww story abt him/her?" and hellya i got loads LOL. i know, im disgusting haha but you know what, you do too bcos you once enjoyed reading it in my blog. HA!

“Gossip, n.: Hearing something you like about someone you don't.” Earl Wilson

i found gossiping really FUN! you know, talking about the hottest news around, well spilling the beans, looselipsing about someone's dark secret, its sooo fun! dont you think so?


well if you don't then youre lying! because when i was having fun being looselips, many people open this blog just to read about looselips! well maybe you dont really like talking about others behind their back but you sure do enjoying the gossips you read! and to be frank, there are times when people come to me : "hey, why dont you looselips about someone anymore? i miss reading your looselips!" ha!

“Love and scandal are the best sweeteners of tea.” - oh so true!

thats what we do when we hang out with others. lunch, tea time or anytime! well if not, whats the point of having E!, buying all of the mags, watching all the infotainment and stuff? well thats just it! we just love to hear gossips! either the good ones or bad ones ( but mostly ppl love the bad ones ) LOL

“Gossip is the art of saying nothing in a way that leaves practically nothing unsaid.”

but unfortunately, this post is not about gossiping someone or anyone or anything! its about the impact and stuff! so boohoo! sorry if i cant fulfill your appetite for gossip!

so speaking of gossiping, lately ive been recalling all the times i spent about gossiping and writing about someone else and ...................................... i dont really have problems with them. from numerous people i gossiped about, probably i only have problems with 1 or 2, and the rest .......... none!

well here's the point :
we judge people by what we HEAR not by what we KNOW!

true, right? seriously, all the gossips i wrote, didnt actually see it with my eyes, it was all the birds, wandering around spreading it ( kabar burung - ha! ). i merely know about the people i wrote, and what I wrote was always about others hatred towards them, not me!

well probably sometimes what we heard was the truth, BUT, with it was with heaps of extras, right? and what we want to hear is usually the bad stuff, so we ended up disliking them.

the stuff about Bella i wrote ( we're already good and ive already said sorry hihi ), i didnt actually know it myself. people told me the bad stuff and yeah i ended up disliking her. thats just what mostly happens right? you hate people not because you have problems with him/her, but its because someone else hate him/her and they started making the unconsciuos anti-sides and voila! you ended up choosing sides and you hate him/her too!

well that happened to me. not only once or twice but many times. talking too many bad things about other and ended up disliking them while i dont really have any problems actually.

well anyway i've learned my lesson and what i want to say is : its okay to gossip (well actually its not but since sometimes its basic-human-needs to ehem "socialize" so yeah its okay), but dont get affected from the thing you hear. you may heard it many times but try not to believe it unless the people you talked about actually confess about it. ( but anyway it will be much much much muuuuchhh better if you dont talk about others. LOL )

and last but not least, after all :

"Gossip is called gossip because it's not always the truth. "
-Justin Timberlake

so have a great day loves! xx!

A chat with daddy JESUS :)

Jesus: Hello. Did you call me?
Man: Called you? No.... Who is this?
Jesus: This is Jesus. I heard your prayers. So I thought I will chat.
Man: I do pray. Just makes me feel good. I am actually busy now. I am in the midst of something.

Jesus: What are you busy at? Ants are busy too.
Man: Don’t know. But I can’t find free time. Life has become hectic. It’s rush hour all the time.
Jesus: Sure. Activity gets you busy. But productivity gets you results. Activity consumes time. Productivity frees it.

Man: I understand. But I still can’t figure out. By the way, I was not expecting YOU to buzz me on instant messaging chat.
Jesus: Well I wanted to resolve your fight for time, by giving you some clarity. In this net era, I wanted to reach you through the medium you are comfortable with.

Man: Tell me, why has life become complicated now?
Jesus: Stop analyzing life. Just live it. Analysis is what makes it complicated.

Man: why are we then constantly unhappy?
Jesus: Your today is the tomorrow that you worried about yesterday. You are worrying because you are analyzing. Worrying has become your habit. That’s why you are not happy.

Man: But how can we not worry when there is so much uncertainty?
Jesus: Uncertainty is inevitable, but worrying is optional.

Man: But then, there is so much pain due to uncertainty.
Jesus: Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional.

Man: If suffering is optional, why do good people always suffer?
Jesus: Diamond cannot be polished without friction. Gold cannot be purified without fire. Good people go through trials, but don’t suffer. With that experience their life become better not bitter.

Man: You mean to say such experience is useful?
Jesus: Yes. In every term, Experience is a hard teacher. She gives the test first and the lessons afterwards.

Man: But still, why should we go through such tests? Why can’t we be free from problems?
Jesus: Problems are Purposeful Roadblocks Offering Beneficial Lessons (to) Enhance Mental Strength. Inner strength comes from struggle and endurance, not when you are free from problems.

Man: Frankly in the midst of so many problems, we don’t know where we are heading.
Jesus: If you look outside you will not know where you are heading. Look inside. Looking outside, you dream. Looking inside, you awaken. Eyes provide sight. Heart provides insight.

Man: Sometimes not succeeding fast seems to hurt more than moving in the right direction. What should I do?
Jesus: Success is a measure as decided by others. Satisfaction is a measure as decided by you. Knowing the road ahead is more satisfying than knowing you rode ahead. You work with the compass. Let others work with the clock.

Man: In tough times, how do you stay motivated?
Jesus: Always look at how far you have come rather than how far you have to go. Always count your blessing, not what you are missing.

Man: What surprises you about people?
Jesus: When they suffer they ask, “why me? When they prosper, they never ask “Why me” Everyone wishes to have truth on their side, but few want to be on the side of the truth.

Man: Sometimes I ask, who I am, why am I here. I can’t get the answer.
Jesus: Seek not to find who you are, but to determine who you want to be. Stop looking for a purpose as to why you are here. Create it. Life is not a process of discovery but a process of creation.

Man: How can I get the best out of life?
Jesus: Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear.

Man: One last question. Sometimes I feel my prayers are not answered.
Jesus: There are no unanswered prayers. At times the answer is NO.

Man: Thank you for this wonderful chat. I am so happy to start the day with a new sense of inspiration.
Jesus: Well. Keep the faith and drop the fear. Don’t believe your doubts and doubt your beliefs. Life is a mystery to solve not a problem to resolve. Trust me. Life is wonderful if you know how to live.

Man: Thank you so much.
Jesus: You are always welcome. Have a good day my friend.
" Always remember, God's Word is the Word for YOU ".

define : sexy

I found it over the internet, well Agung posted it and i guess it's worth sharing :)


"I find the whole concept of being ‘sexy’ embarrassing and confusing. If I do an interview with photographs people desperately want to change me - dye my hair blonder, pluck my eyebrows, give me a fringe. Then there’s the choice of clothes. I know everyone wants a picture of me in a mini-skirt. But that’s not me. I feel uncomfortable. I’d never go out in a mini-skirt. It’s nothing to do with protecting the Hermione image. I wouldn’t do that. Personally, I don’t actually think it’s even that sexy. What’s sexy about saying, ‘I’m here with my boobs out and a short skirt, have a look at everything I’ve got?’ My idea of sexy is that less is more. The less you reveal the more people can wonder. - Emma Watson

live life!

Take chances. Tell the truth. Date someone totally wrong for you. Say no. Spend all your cash! Fall in love. Get to know someone random. Be random. Say I love you. Sing out loud. Laugh at a stupid joke. Cry. Get revenge. Apologize. Tell someone how much they mean to you. Tell the asshole what you feel. Let someone know what they’re missing. Laugh til your stomach hurts. LIVE LIFE!

Life is ...

Life is a beauty; admit it.
Life is bliss; taste it
Life is a dream; realize it.
Life is challenge; meet it.
Life is a duty; complete it.
Life is a game; play it
Life is a promise; fullfill it.
Life is sorrow; overcome it.
Life is a song; sing it.
Life is a struggle; accept it.
Life is a tragedy; confront it.
Life is an adventure; dare it.
Life is luck; make it.
Life is too precious; do not destroy it.
Life is life; fight for it.

wisdom words

all these wisdom quotes are taken from @GaryLie 's tweets

• There's a benefit from losing, you get to learn from your mistakes
• A nothing can be something when you receive it from someone you love #GaryLie
• There's no failure except in no longer trying #GaryLie
• I like dreams of the future better than the history of the past. - Thomas Jefferson #GaryLie
• You will face many defeats in your life, but never let yourself be defeated. #GaryLie
• The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong #GaryLie
• Fall 7 times. stand up 8 -Japanese Proverb #GaryLie
• Remember that you're needed. There's at least 1 important work to be done that will not be done unless you do it #GaryLie
• Don't be a second version of someone else, because you are unique and the world needs people like you #GaryLie
• The past is full of good experiences yet our mind sometimes makes it unworthy to look at
• You are special not because you look like somebody but because the way you are

yeah so, those are some tweets i copied from gary's. well simply follow him now! @GaryLie and yeah, he's my bro :P night loves!

buang sakit hatimu

buang jauh2 rasa sakit hatimu dari pikiranmu, karena memendam rasa sakit hati hanya akan membuatmu tidak bisa tidur dengan nyenyak dan hanya akan membuat perasaanmu tak nyaman, maka dari itu, buanglah jauh-jauh perasaan sakit hati itu!

pity you.

who spent seconds cursing me,
who spent minutes mocking me behind my back,
who spent hours gossiping about me,
who spent your day looking for my mistakes,
who spent your night asking other people about the bad things about me,
who spend your life hating me!

blah! you're sooo miserable. a total stupid miserable idiot i suppose.
and yeah although I used to be somekind of that miserable bitch, sorry I've changed! I don't buy that kind of lifestyle anymore.

well, if you love me i love you more, if you hate me? get a life. smooch :*

Hidup adalah Belajar.

Well, I'm not the one who wrote this. but yeah, it's still a good thing to be published anyway.

Hidup adalah belajar,
belajar bersyukur ketika tak cukup,
belajar ikhlas meski tak rela.

belajar taat meski berat,
belajar memahami meski tak sehati.

belajar sabar meski terbebani,
belajar setia meski tergoda.

belajar memberi meski tak seberapa,
belajar mengasihi meski disakiti.

belajar tenang meski gelisah,
belajar percaya meski susah.

Teruslah belajar kawan! :)

lovefool

• Rejection hurts. But regretting not having taken a chance hurts even worse.
  
• My diary is not just a diary. It tells a story. A story about you, me and us. #
• I've fallen in love so many times..Always with you.
• I got too much LOVE running through my veins, going to waste
• And tears flow on our cheeks. It’s a goodbye symphony.
• No matter how long its been, I still have that familiar fluttery feeling whenever you're with me.
• We know sometimes it’s gonna rain. And when it does, will you stay with me or run for cover?
• And I’m just lying here. Holding our picture together and cry.. For I miss you so much since the day that you’re gone.
• Sometimes, we guard our hearts so fiercely that we've forgotten how to let people in.
  
• 
  
• I know I don’t love you anymore. I know you don’t move me as before. And I know I’m a terrible liar.
• You used to be the one who puts a smile on my face.
• Time passes. Memories fade. Feelings change. People leave. But hearts never forget. -@DearLove_

anyone can cook!

"In many ways, the work of a critic is easy. We risk very little yet enjoy a position over those who offer up their work and their selves to our judgment. We thrive on negative criticism, which is fun to write and to read. But the bitter truth we critics must face, is that in the grand scheme of things, the average piece of junk is probably more meaningful than our criticism designating it so.

But there are times when a critic truly risks something, and that is in the discovery and defense of the new. The world is often unkind to new talent, new creations, the new needs friends. Last night, I experienced something new, an extraordinary meal from a singularly unexpected source. To say that both the meal and its maker have challenged my preconceptions about fine cooking is a gross understatement. They have rocked me to my core. In the past, I have made no secret of my disdain for Chef Gusteau's famous motto: Anyone can cook.

But I realize, only now do I truly understand what he meant. Not everyone can become a great artist, but a great artist can come from anywhere. It is difficult to imagine more humble origins than those of the genius now cooking at Gusteau's, who is, in this critic's opinion, nothing less than the finest chef in France. I will be returning to Gusteau's soon, hungry for more. " -Anton Ego, Ratatouille

I love it, the best part of ratatouille, a meaningful ending :)

freedom

do what you want, not what you were told to.
because without will, everything will be a total vain.

say whats on your mind, don't keep it.
because people won't know if you don't tell them.

go to the place you've never gone before.
because every place has its own uniqueness. good for inspiration.

aim high and do the best.
mostly people with great ambition are the ones who succeed.

be strong and have faith, don't drown in despair.
every bad thing will pass. only people who have hope can stand again.

go for the best while there's a chance.
go to the best school, get the best score and you will live high.

thank your enemy, and smile.
without hatred from them, you won't have a strong personality.

be humble and and thank God for everything
because everything that you have came from Him.

Christianity

quotes of the day, berubungan dengan page penghinaan itu juga si. :

• Anyway, tenanglah, kejadian seperti ini untuk menggenapi nubuatan alkitab juga.. Krena sbtulnya satu2nya sengsara yg disebutkan utk kita para manusia baru adalah persecution..bukan miskin, sakit, ato apapun yg lain, tapi persecution.. Persecution brarti ada yg... See More persecute kita, dan sudah dari dahulu kala, kita persecuted karena iman kita.. Seperti Paulus dia malah merasa tersanjung boleh ikut menderita disiksa demi Kristus.. Jadi, yg penting kita tetep fokus ke Yesus ok :D
• Hmm.. Tapi sesungguhnya dosa ya dosa, semua orang berdosa.. Orang2 yg ga menerima Yesus walopun ga ampe menghujat2 kayak mereka jg akan sama aja nasibnya, karena yg mampu menebus dosa cuma Yesus, korban yg sempurna.. Drpd kita terpancing ama org2 sprti itu, mendingan kita terus menjadi saksi, memperkenalkan Yesus ke yg blom pernah denger.. Setidaknya pilihan sudah diberikan.. Klo menolak ya apa boleh buat, didoakan saja..
• Coba lihat 1 Kor:25-31
  Tak perlu terganggu dgn orang2 dunia.. Kewarganegaraan kita bukan di dunia ini anyway..hehe

all responses by Teddy Lionel, alumni smuki juga loh! :D

be grateful

Quotes of the day

"For those who think they're not as rich as the others. Rethink of your character and attitude first. Maybe God doesn't want u to be as rich as them because He knows that you're gonna be greedy,selfish and too proud of yourself which later you're gonna leave Him behind. so be grateful of what you have"
- Stefani Tan

i ALMOST did something bad

faktanya adalah :

semua orang di dunia ini siapapun itu pasti selama dia hidup pasti pernah mencuri minimal 1x.

hayooo ngaku yook pernah nyuri apaa. hehe Dulu juga gw pernah sekali nyolong karet seharga 27.500 rupiah pas gw masih kecil, terus ga lama setelah itu gw bertobat dan janji kepada diri sendiri dan Tuhan kalo GW GAK AKAN MENCURI LAGI!

And I almost broke my promise to God. untungnya si masih belom, tapi hampir aja kmrn gw nyuri. walaupun berpikir untuk mencuri aja udah berdosa, tapi, gimana yah, ketika duit lu lagi ngepas2an, lu beneran pengen banget memiliki sebuah benda yang agak mahal dan lebih gilanya lagi, di tempat itu kayak emang udah menyediakan sebuah tempat khusus untuk mencuri gitu! sepi, terpencil, gelap2. YA AMPUN TEMPTING BANGET!

dan okay, kmrn beneran nih barang yang gw sudah kepikiran buat gw 'curi' udah di depan mata, gw bergumul banget. gw pegang janji gw selama lebih dr 10 tahun, masa gw akan mengingkari janji gw hanya karena sebuah benda yang harganya itu ga seberapa banget lah, masih bisa dibeli dengan duit sendiri sebenernya?

gw beneran pas lagi bergumul, gw sampe pengen nangis sendiri di tempat umum. akhirnya gw doa di tempat itu, gw minta Tuhan kuatin iman gw buat ngak mencuri dan akhirnya 15 menit gw mondar mandir dan akhirnya gw tak mencuri! HIP HIP HORRRAAAYYYY for me!

disaat2 gw memutuskan untuk GAK BOLEH MENCURI LAGI! gw mikir, mencuri itu dosa, lagian gw ga bener2 perlu kok barang itu! dan kalo gw bs nahan diri, pastinya suatu saat Tuhan bakal ngasih juga itu barang ke gw! dan mungkin yang dikasih bakal lebih gitu. dan juga, gw belajar untuk jadi orang yang megang omongan sendiri, gak mau mengingkari janji gw kepada Tuhan. and I succeeded! horray!

jujur aja sblm gw nulis postingan yang ini, gw mikir, am I really gonna tell everyone kalo gw pernah mencuri? dan akhirnya gw putuskan yaudah lah, itu udah masa lalu dan skrg kan bisa jadi sebuah kesaksian.

dan gw si jujur aja merasa sangat amat bangga dengan diri gw sendiri karena akhirna gw tidak mencuri padahal kesempatannya udah gede banget! rasanya setelah lu bs 'membunuh' keinginan duniawi itu beneran deh, lo jadi lebih yahhh gimana lah gitu seneng banget! haha

pesan moral (seperti di buku dongeng) : Jangan pernah mencuri lagi, guys! apapun keadaannya, walaupun lu lagi susah banget, tahan diri. barang yang diambil itu pasti ga seberapa kok! good luck guys!

random.

1. Good apology has 3 parts: I’m sorry, it was my fault and how do I make it right? A lot of us usually miss the 3rd. -Vea Mariz
2. When you forgive other people, you are making a promise not to use their past sin against them. -Jay Adams
3. Don't lie to your feelings. Sooner or later, it'll be the thing that you'll regret the most. -Dhanti Praspani
4. GIRLS: Diamonds never leave you.. men do! That's why diamonds are a girl's best friend :)
5. GIRLS: It's not the men in your life that counts, it's the life in your men! -Mae West
6. Throw ur past in dust-bin. Keep the present on ur working table. Display ur future on the notice board. -Mary D. Russell
7. When you get 100% trust of someone and you break it, you'll need to start again from minus 100% instead of zero.
8. The world most beautiful sentence, “But I love you.” The world’s most painful sentence, “I love you but…”
9. 3 man's dreams: Handsome as his mother thinks. Rich as his child believes. Have as many women as his wife suspects. -> LOL
10. It takes forever to prove that s/he is your true love. Because once it ends, it isn't the true one.
11. As we age up, we realize that it’s not important to have friends, what’s important is to have real ones. -Vea Mariz
12. Forgiveness is better than revenge. -Epictetus
13. GIRLS: Remember, you are beautiful. But keep in mind that not everyone's gonna be able to see that.
14. A girl can admire many guys, but it takes a special guy to have her dreaming about
15. Crying is a means of cleaning yourself out emotionally. The only way to express yourself when words fail. -Aristotle

ihatequotes.

• There is always a beauty inside every problem. It just needs a brave heart to see it.
• There, many ppl who are smarter and better than us. The only thing we can do is to try harder than them.
• Nothings is impossible, the word itself says "I'm possible!"
• Everyone’s scared, but that’s not a reason to run away.
• #justbecause something good ends, doesn’t mean something better won’t begin.
• Don't worry about what people think of you, cause in the end it only matters what God thinks of you.
• Sometimes the only reason I lied was because the truth was so difficult to explain.
• Change if you want. But don’t change for me. I can love you as you are.
• Building a relationship with lies is just like building a house with sand.
• Friendship is ended when you stop caring each other.
• Run when you can, walk when you have to, crawl if you must; just never give up.
• You didn’t love her; you don’t destroy the people you love. -Grey’s Anatomy
• In the beginning, we told each other secrets. In the end, we told each other lies.

buat yang patah semangat

semua orang pasti pernah mengalami masa kelamnya tersendiri. kau tahu,

hati yang tergores terlalu dalam hingga tak bisa disembuhkan,
tubuh yang terlalu letih hingga sulit untuk digerakkan,
air mata yang tak tersisa lagi setetespun,
semangat yang tadinya berkobar seperti api akhirnya memudar,
perasaan seperti kau baru didorong ke lubang yang sangat dalam,
sehingga kau tak bisa lagi memanjat ke atas.

tak perlu diragukan, pasti semua orang pernah merasakan hal seperti itu, dan kau tahu, aku mendapatkan beberapa 'quotes' yang tepat untuk membangkitkan semangat kita. Untuk membuat kita bangun lagi dari kejatuhan kita.

• The darkest hour is just before dawn.
• Bad times will pass, night comes before sunrise
• Even after a bad harvest, there must be a sowing
• NEVER presume that things will never change, Everything moves on!
• Don't think you are the only one to have your hopes dashed. It can and does happened to ALL OF US!

well, sedikit tapi cukup nancep kan? yah begitulah! gw kmrn2 jg sempet down bangetngetnget tapi yah gw baca quotes ini dan WOW!! bener banget! lagian kalian perlu inget, seperti roda, hidup ini jg berputar, jadi kalo kita di bawah nanti jg pelan2 ke atas juga! (dan doain aja ga turun ke bawah lagi lol) dan hidup seperti bola juga! semakin kenceng lo dipukul, dilempar, ato ga didribble, semakin tinggi, kenceng juga pantulan lo! okeh2? semoga membantu guys! ;)

Appreciate those assholes

Appreciate those who have hurt you, cos they strengthen your heart.
Appreciate those who deceive you, because they improve your wisdom.
Appreciate those who slander against you, cause they improve your personality.
Appreciate those who whip you, cause they arouse your will to fight.
Appreciate those who abandon you, cause they teach you independence.
Appreciate those who make you stumble, cause they strengthen your legs.
Appreciate those who denounce you, cause they remind you of your short-comings.

Sumpah ini kayak super membuka mata dan menusuk banget, cmn setelah dipikir iya juga yah, the best line is : Appreciate those who abandon you, cause they teach you independence.

A Friend's Promise

If you need to cry, I’ll hold you.
If you need to be angry, I’ll let you.
If you’re feeling afraid, I’ll comfort you.
If you’re feeling attacked, I’ll be your defense.
If you need to lean awhile, I’ll give you a shoulder.
If you’re feeling alone, I’ll be the friend who won’t leave you.
If you need to learn to trust again, I’ll prove to you that you can.